A few girls have told me this and I wanted to get you ladies opinion on this. If I completely or somewhat ignore this girl I'm dating will this get them to think about me more? I don't like playing games and to be honesty with you, I was never very good at it. I really don't want to do this but every other girl that I've dated has taken me for a ride and has broken me down to a pile of mush. I don't want this relationship to become like the rest. I am really starting to fall for this girl and I don't want to compare her to the others I've dated but a lot of the same traits are starting to show from her.
See I suffer from the nice guy finish last syndrome and I'm tired of it. I'm tired of being played, used, and treated like sh*t. Like I said, I don't like playing games but I need help in order to not have this one use me like the rest of them have.
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I hate games and I don't play them. You have to find what works for you. If you need to do all of that to get her attention, is she really worth it? If the attraction and interest are mutual, shouldn't two people want to be together without false complications?1