I met this girl about two months ago and we just started hanging out, like every day. She is really awesome. The problem is that I leave in like two weeks to go to a different state so I can visit my parents before going into boot camp. I haven't seen my parents in like a year so I definitely want to go see them before I join the navy. This girl and I really like each other and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes and everything. Even tho I leave soon for like two months. And then I come back in time for boot camp which is another two months of being away. She said she really likes me but isn't exactly sure how the long distance is going to work but that she is "definitely going to try because she really wants to be with me." You think we could possibly have a future together? How is it dating a guy in the military ladies? Confused on what to do!
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I've been in your situation. Can I just say that your life is about to take off and it goes fast. I've seen troops who have been in dedicated relationships for years fail because distance is a factor and their priorities change. I think both of you need to be realistic. To be honest I think she has said it in the nicest way possible by saying that she likes you, but isn't sure about the long distance thing. Long distance relationships are already hard. Add in the fact that now you're about to be in the military, and that's a whole new subject. Good luck to you in your relationship situation and good luck to you in your military career.1