I'm seeing this a lot. A lot of the girls online who are overweight will post photos only shoulder high, overhead angled to hide their weight, or only their face, or even really old photos of them before they gained their weight.
I know a lot of girls may hate this but I am very fitness oriented and not attracted to girls who are overweight and stopped replying to girls who don't have legitimate photos. Also some girls have had this issue I hear with guys misleading with photos too so I don't think it's something only women do. I hear a lot of girls complain about guys lying about their height.
With that said, I've met some girls in person who have mislead me with photos and would like to know if why they do this? Are they thinking that I'll put the lies aside and "accept them for who they are" or something? Some of these girls really seem to get high hopes as well and let down when they see my disinterest.
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I do, I can't speak for everyone, though. I read once that you should put up 2-3 good photos of yourself and one that clearly shows your flaws or just how you normally look (without you looking your worst, of course). That seemed like good advice.
It seems that a lot of people use old photos online. Sometimes I think it's because we have such few photos of ourselves alone, not just to hide flaws. When you put up photos of you and another person, there seems to be the need for a bunch of explanation of who that other person is. Or you worry if they are better looking than you, etc.0