I sometimes catch her out of bed at night and I hear her crying. When I rush to go check what's wrong she refuses to admit she cried. It takes about an hour of convincing for her to say she is still hurt from previous fights where I said nasty things to her and when I wasn't able to be there for her. She doesn't admit it now but I know she still cries because of it. I tried making it up to her but every so often she breaks down. She never does that or wants to admit she does. It makes me feel horrible that she is still scarred because of it. I tried talking to her, buying gifts or giving her flowers but she shuts down when I talk to her about it. I really don't know what to do at this point. I'm not leaving her I love her dearly.
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What did you say and do to her that it was so horrible? Flowers and gifts won't fix anything. If you're sure this is why she's crying, give her time. Let her know you are there for her now and be there for her, try to talk, but don't push her, and most of all, respect her if you really love her, no matter how hard things get. I don't know what you did or say, so I can't say you're not good for her. But sometimes it's true that if you love someone and you're bad for them and vice versa, you should set them free.0