I met a girl a while back and when we were talking she of course did not warn me until she was about to get in the car that she smokes weed. The really uncomfortable part about it was that she literally got high at the end of her shift at work where she wanted me to pick her up and then got into my car. Everything else seemed nice about her but the fact that she smoked weed I couldn't shake and it became our only date/meet up/ whatever.
Granted I am very strict on being drug free I also couldn't date a girl that frequents bars often as I am a non-drinker. So I want to hear your thoughts on if you'd date a drug user, if you think weed is something "you don't count as a drug" and if you'd date them? Also if you smoke weed yourself indicate that because I'd imagine that a person who smokes weed would date one who does as well.
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I personally don't think that weed is any worse than alcohol, BUT everything in moderation. If she's smoking everyday that's a problem (just like if somebody is drinking everyday). I see both alcohol and marijuana as social drugs if you're getting high/drunk by yourself for me that's a red flag.
If she couldn't wait until after your date to get high that's something that would freak me out a bit. I mean, you just don't do that. You wouldn't get drunk before a date would you? See, that's what I'd have a problem with right there.. like I said I look at weed the same way I look at alcohol.
And yes smoking cigarettes are a dealbreaker for me. I can do Black and Milds and cigars and e-cigs, but straight up cigarettes stink like it smells like the person chewed on a pack of beef jerky mixed with dog crap after they finish smoking. The former and weed I'm ok with because they don't smell as bad to me.1