Does he want me to... Or does he not?

So I started talking to this guy online. We talked like once or twice a day for a few weeks. He went on a trip over seas and he wrote that the site didn't work well there "if you want to text me this is my number." Why do guys always say if you want? Like does he want me to or is he just giving his number out of pity?


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  • He's putting the ball in your court. The fact that he went out of his way to give you his number (rather than just waiting to get back from his trip to keep up conversations with you on the site you use) gives me the feeling that he does want you to text him.

    • Amen. He doesn't want to appear too eager or needy but he definitely wants to hear from you.

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