I am 5'6" and at my heaviest I weighed 330 pounds. I had some bad stuff happen to me when I was younger and I turned to food to deal with my depression. Eventually the light bulb went off in my head that I did not want to be this depressed and obese any longer and through diet and exercise alone lost 150 pounds.
Now I am at 180 pounds and wear a size L in tops and size 12 in jeans/pants. I look and feel great when I am wearing clothes. But I am still EXTREMELY self conscious when I am naked and have avoided being intimate with anyone because of skin issues.
My arms actually are OK, but I have BIG sagging droopy boobs. I still have a lot of belly fat. And my thighs are a mess.
I want surgery but can't afford that now. So I wanted to ask the GUYS on here especially, would you be interested romantically in a girl that use to be obese, lost all the weight and works out regularly now, but still has skin/body issues underneath the clothes? Or do you think you would be too repulsed to even consider her?
Speak truthfully now! :)
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Probably yes. But as much as people like to say "it is what is on the inside that counts.." there has to be physical attraction. So you cannot make a blanket statement of "would you date..." because it depends on the girl. But it depends on the girl even if she was always skinny.
Most of us are not skinny people. Especially guys. Most of us guys have a stomach on us. But it has been there my whole life and I know it will never be going away. So either she likes me or she doesn't. I have no control over that.2