What to do about work gossip between me and and a female coworker?

[Anonymous]

Updates:

[Arivor]

This is actually quite common in many types of businesses, and it can be detrimental to both parties concerned. People gossip, sometimes they may not even know that is what they are doing and some will gossip about people like you and your coworker... the very second they find out anything of interest.

You know what? I saw them go back into that spare office… again!

Obviously, since this involves a female coworker of yours... You most definitely forgotten the biggest rule: Don't Get Romantically Involved With a Co-Worker

An office romance puts you at risk of becoming the subject of workplace gossip. In this case, you won't even have to share personal information with your co-workers. They will be able to witness it live and in person. You and your partner will be the stars of your workplace's reality show.

Keeping the relationship a secret is possible, but difficult, especially if you and your co-worker are on the same team. If it's already too late, at least be discreet when dating a co-worker. Don't flaunt your relationship in front of your colleagues. Refrain from public displays of affection or arguing in front of everyone.