I just recently came out of a 2 year relationship that ended badly, but I’m fine and moved on. I’m currently living with my best friend’s mom while he’s in the Navy, while ironically, the military was my life goal and college was his. I’m now 21 and I feel like I’ve lost interest in the military and I’m seriously considering just starting a career in welding (I have an in because of my dad.) However, I’m not at all positive that it’s what I want to do, and I really don’t want to regret it 10 years down the road. A month ago I decided I would become a surgeon, and before that, a police officer, and a teacher before that. I don’t know what I want to do for the rest of my life, but I’m at a crossroad and need to make a decision soon. I just made a new group of friends recently, and I’m even considering an apartment with one of them, but this is another thing that has me lost. I could really use some advice, thanks!