I saw this on my feed, and I agreed with it wholeheartedly. Do you agree? Do you disagree? Why?
- I agree.
- I disagree.
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I agree with this. It's not just with being fat though. If people admit that they're less than ideal (fat, ugly, whatever) than it means they are insecure or they're putting themselves down. Some people just know that they're fat (like her) and they are just admitting it. It's not a bad thing. I'm not fat, but I do have an unattractive face. It's very masculine looking. People have been telling me this most of my life, including family members. When I was younger, it bothered me. However, as I got older I started to realize it was true. So I say it, not because I want people to call me pretty, or because I am putting myself down, or just because of insecurity. I am not admitting that I know I am not beautiful.
The thing is, if she was saying that she is skinny, people would tell her she is delusional and call her fat. People would say the same if I tried calling myself beautiful. There is a difference between acknowledging something and putting yourself down.