Can guys and girls be JUST FRIENDS?

Do you think guys and girls can be just friends? Or can a girl have a lot of guy friends and it never turns into anything more?
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Assuming they are both straight.
And how do you make sure no one becomes attracted to each other?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes, my best friend is a guy. My boyfriends best friend is a girl. I consider my bff an older brother and my boyfriend considers his bff as a little sister to him.

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    • How long have you and your best friend been friends? In order to have a sibling-like relationship, do you have to grow up together?

    • We've been besties for a year now. No, you don't have to grow up together to have a sibling-like relationship. He and I are too much alike to be anything more than brother and sister. Plus, he's in love with my sister lol.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes they can be friends... But if the girl Is less good looking and the boy in a relationship with a much hotter girl someone like @Girlwithcooltats ...

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    • So it's harder for guys to be friends with attractive girls?

    • Yes indeed!.. Although it depends, on what that guy consider hot?

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  • Unfortunately, even at my age, this is generally not possible, because of three main reasons:

    Her boobs and Her Butt.

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  • I believe so. I have plenty of guy friends but a lot of the time they end up liking me or wanting to have sex with me which sucks but I have no problem being friends with a guy I'm not attracted too. I would be friends with an attractive guy too but it might be too distracting and I would definitely try to hook up with them if we got drunk together lol

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  • Yes, of course. One of my best friends was a guy, we're both straight and we weren't attracted to each other.
    I was only a friend to him, just like he was only a friend to me and that's why we didn't have feelings for each other.
    I couldn't even see me in a relationship with him.

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  • Definitely!! I've been friends with the guys from my church for years. I watched them all get girlfriends and they always individually came to me for advice about the girls they liked. It was like a strange sort of brother/sister relationship we had

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  • Yes. As long as neither one is attracted to the other, it's easy.

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    • Like if he is jobless and homeless, and she is like 250lbs and not in a good way?

  • Yes, of course they can be. I don't see a reason why

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  • I think guys and girls can be friends, I mean sure SOMETIMES the friend thing doesn't work and it becomes more. But I think their are guys separated in the friends zone and their okay with it and want to stay there.

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  • Pure luck of the draw whether they can be or not without feelings - How do you stop people getting feelings, I don't think you can but not every mixed gender friendship will develop feelings.

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  • I'd Hope so! Some guys are cool to talk to! Some time I like talking to girls because you can talk about make-up!

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  • sure, I have a couple of female friends with none of us being interested in more with each other

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  • I'm friends with people who aren't attracted to me, nor me to them, and we're good friends!

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  • It is possible, but it is likely that one or the other or both is going to develop romantic feelings, which will complicate things.

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  • Yes girls and guys can just be friends like Harry Potter and Hermione

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  • Nah I can't lol I talk and bang chicks I find hot , I don't freindzone them and those who aren't hot. I just don't talk to em so

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  • Yes, easily

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  • Yes, they can be.
    Just waiting for some sex crazy comments...

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  • I think it's possible

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  • No.

    It's been my experience that the it's always either side that wants something more. Girls that us guys friendzone want to fuck us, and girls that friendzone us are girls that we want to fuck

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