Imagine you you worked at a restaurant and this particular black guy kept coming in to eat. You must've seen him like 4 or 5 times at least! Then one day he pops up and before he leaves he writes you a small note and gives it to you... The note says...👇🏽
But your not really interested so you never call...😌
Would you say somthing if you saw that guy again the next day? Would you avoid all contact like eye contact and verbal contact? Would you feel bad and maybe say Somthin to the guy? Would you probably have a change of heart and give him your number? Or would you just hope to never see him again?
Im asking because this situation applies to me and... I'm not sure if I should speak again or just keep my distance completely?
(When I say "keep my distance completely" I mean like... Should I just never go to that restaurant again)
- I would avoid eye contact and verbal contact
- I would feel bad & maybe say Somthin to the guy (I have a boyfriend)
- 🤔If he looks nice I might change my mind and give him my number
- I would just hope I don't have to see or speak to him again😁
Most Helpful Girl
If she never called you then that's like your answer right there. You don't want to come across as a stalker or creep, so no more notes or anything. I don't think u have to stop going to the restaurant completely though, unless you feel a little uncomfortable going back. I think you should've spoke to her face to face instead of a note. If I was her that's what I would've preferred or you should've tried light conversations here & there with her first before the note.