Most Helpful Girl
Because they wish girls were falling over them instead of the popstar. I love Justin and 1D and so many of my guy friends / boyfriend dog on them. I don't really care to be honest , they never have a legit reason on why they don't like them, so I just go with pure jealousy. If they actually sat and listened to their music they would see that have quite a lot of bops. And also boy bands and pop singers are more gravitated towards girls anyways ( when a girl listens to their music they think " I wish a guy would say this to me.")
Most Helpful Guy
Society slams guys who are popular with girls without following the rules of conventional masculinity.
I am personally suspicious we're raised to do this, because societies that turned into preening contests among men collapsed, and the cultures that did well (which are the cultures we've grown up in) were ones that channeled male drive for mates in more productive ways.