hi, another point to go in my book, i was never maternal didn't want children did really well and then at 32 had some bat shit crazy idea i wanted a child within 2 weeks id conceived... lol the absolute worst pregnancy ever, polyhydramnios. tummy damage a whole new level, carpal tunnel syndrome, heartburn gallons of medicine, worst delivery ever, depression after, at this point i knew i should of trusted my instincts nature had given me with no maternal drive...3 years later i did it again better because a girl lol being a mother has mentally broken me and the hardest loneliest thing ever but i couldnt change a thing although i do still say a few times a week, i f... g hate kids... along with pets and men lol xxx
Sounds like you have npd
@Brah63926 hey there, would be intrigued to know how you read my words and felt i have the characteristics of npd? then i have more to say... xx
Never. Not only is it a huge financial risk, but it seems to shred relationships like nothing else. Even if it did neither, I don't think I'd be a good parent. With me, any child would likely become screwed up.I may adopt a child one day, provided I find a woman with whom I can share mutual trust, but I doubt it.
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Eh? Naw, I'm good. I've never been good with children, they cost a lot (emotionally and financially), I really am not interested in either having sex (call me weird, if you will) or going through pregnancy, and, most of all, I honestly don't think I'd have the time for them either in this particular point of time. All throughout my life people have told me, "You will change your mind, all women do!" but look at me now- I'm 20 and still have no incentive of having children or having sex. However, I have considered adopting a child one day if I can become financially secure and I'm ready to make that move. Child birth is definitely not something I want to go through, though.
I dont. Im not naturally maternal and I can't see myself staying put in one area for a long time while they're growing up. I dont really connect with babies... their screaming really pushes me over the edge and I can see myself losing my cool if the child screamed at ME all day. My mom did a lot of work with special needs kids growing up, and it was really hard to watch. I dont think I could love my child anyway... if he or she had some of the impairments I've seen her work with. I just can't see myself being able to put in the emotional and physical work required to be a good parent... and I really have no interest in trying
I already said I wouldn't, see my question here if you want to understand why:www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2402514-if-you-really-want-children-but-don-t-have-any-yet-then-can-you-deal
Yeah I feel like it would be a very rewarding experience that would help me grow as a person, while also contributing something hopefully civilized and positive to the world before I leave it. I would like also to improve upon the mistakes my parents made with me as they did with my grandparents many abuses and follies. Perhaps it doesn't happen for me but if it does I'll count myself as lucky, & if not lucky in love at that moment, at least nine months later.
Nope. Being a parent is not something I would be enthusiastic about, and a person should be 100% in for that kind of commitment. I may change my mind and adopt at some point, but I'm definitely giving birth.
Probably eventually. I might adopt one or two as well, depends on what my partner is going to want too.I used to say I never wanted kids but them natural instincts are plaguing my mind with pregnancy and child dreams. 😂😭
Yes. When you get old you'll get tired of all the material crap and will have a desire to watch your offspring grow and develop.
Yeah. But not now. After I finish my education and find a job and a love of my life, then I'm all for it if he would like to. I'm just a person who would like to show my love and warmth to someone I really love, that's my need and a dream that would make me happy and fulfilled, having people to take care of, who love me too.
yes I love kids. I would love to have some of my own someday
Yes i do but I'm scared because the dreams i have tell me otherwise and that if i do something bad is going happen to me and plus I'm not financially ready
I want childre , why? because I have that strong feeling that I need to have my own kids to protect them, show them life on my way, share with them a big part of me, someone to love without waiting anything for return even love u back.
Nope. I grew up taking care of my brothers and sisters most of my life. They are kinda like my kids. I really don't want children of my own.
No.There was a time when I would have said YES.Unfortunately one of my brother-in-law made a joke (not once, not twice but THREE times) about how I might be a... "Peadophile, because I get on great with all the kids and they all get on with me"!!
No, I don't want kids. There is already too many humans on this planet and I'm not going to contribute. Also, there are plenty of kids that are in foster homes. My body would be ruined and I would never be the same.
No, I do not want children. I like my life as it is and don't feel that something is missing. I don't feel like there's a void or something that could be filled by a child. My fiance and I have other goals in life.
I do want children for the reason most people do, but my big reason is something just personal. I want to be able to hold them the day they are born and just stare in awe at them. I'll know that I created life and it's something to me that's a huge accomplishment.
Nah , They mostly grow up to be inconsiderate and you raise them up to leave you anyway... thats what we did to our parents and thats what our children will do to us. So no.
I do not want to have children. That view could change. However someday I would love to adopt, there are so many children out there without families, that grow up not knowing they are loved.
ehh i don't like kids. They're annoying, expensive as heck, and they take all of your time
I just had a kid and I want another one. Not anytime soon. Like in 5 years or so
Well, I'm a guy but no. I don't want to have sex. I had it once and oh boy the penis hurts a lot because of it so I'd rather not.
No. People says I may change my mind, but I don't think so.
With all the women saying No, we can already state our species as doomed.
That's never gonna happen, because of hormones and shit to keep humans horny and fucking and churning out more humans. Unless everybody actually undergone surgery and had their tubes tied first or vasectomies then it's not doomed at all. Maybe the population growth is declining a bit here and there but that's about it.
only reason i NEED one, is that im an only child. and im a guy, so, i need to keep my family name going. otherwise, i couldn't care less
No. Maybe I'm selfish, but I don't want to ruin my body and be miserable in the last trimester only to spend my life cleaning up poo, pee, and vomit, and having them grow up to hate me
hahahaha amen to that !
No kids ruin your sex life ! And they are expensive
Yes! I'm the future of course maybe when I'm 25 or 27 like when I have steady career. Probably only 2 And because I want kids of my own with my future husband
Yes i actually cannot wait to find a person to share that type of adventure with
No. I prefer to live my life without that responsibility
You mean you don't want to ever have this?cdn-webimages.wimages.net/...2fb846d4d36505-wm.jpg:O
At least you never have to worry about losing a child if you never had one, right?
At some point, just for the life experience
not now bcz niw i m set my life ,Careers & i m single
Yes, at least one, but probably two.
Noooo I am not fit to be a parent anyways hahah
Yes, I need to be a Father.
sometime in the future... yesbut not now
yeah i do i want a girl and boy
Yes.. Because I'm a peacock.
Yes, my line must continue.
Are you saleing them?How much for?
Yes, in the future 😊
already have them, wouldn't want anymore
No. This world has enough freaks like me
I can't have children because I have std
I love kids 😍❤
Hell no, I actually want to enjoy my life.
I did, and do!
no! too old
I wanna have so many
I only want to kiss ur feet
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