Who is the abuser?

since i was little my mom told me i was abusive. i was violent from 8-16 but my therapist said that i was only really physically abusive for the last two years because i couldn’t control myself. recently I've felt like she was abusing me. she is a compulsive overeater and i overeat a lot as well. she goes to meetings and i don’t. whenever i overeat she berates me and tells me the dollar amount I ate.


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  • She set the stage for you to follow.

    If you correct your eating habits and she becomes hostile towards you about something else, as if all she did was find another reason to lash at you, then she's being abusive. If she's being abusive you should look into moving out ASAP.


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  • Sounds like you’re both manipulative


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