- More passionate deep and sacrificial the love and service between my parents the more my parents will love and satisfy me.
- My parents love for me is somewhat dependant on their love for each other. Maybe even random
- The more parents hate each other between the confinements of marriage the more they will love and satisfy their son / daughter /me.
Most Helpful Girls
Actually, imagine is not supposed to be about being in love is about doing what you're obligated to do for that person. A man is supposed to provide for his family, work, make sure it is enough money to feed the family, pay the bills oh, and help render the children. Do you have to sacrifice his needs for the needs of the wife. The wife is supposed to do the same thing also she also has her own roles to play. When it comes to handling children is a different story depending on the mindset and the personality of the child. Both parents overall should love their children, but raising children comes differently for many people. Marriage is not about the other person liking each other. Is about doing what needs to be done. They must over all learn to love and like each other, but they should never treat their children any differently. What you went through was a dysfunctional family life. However one thing that is true, is that what you see between them God forbid one day reflect how you treat your relationships and marriage. For those reasons you got to seek real guidance and wisdom regarding what is a relationship and what isn't. Your parents to sound like they going through their own struggles which is typical in any marriage. Every marriage will have its ups and downs. That's the reality.
I personally believe that the love shared among one's parents or guardians is a reflection of how they value love and relationships which in turn is what they instill and display towards their children.
My biological mom and dad's relationship became toxic to where my mom had to leave him. If it wasn't for my mom refinding love and marrying my now step dad who loves my brother and I like he loves his own son... I'd probably be a mess.
Most Helpful Guys
I think the issue is far more complicated than the choices you have presented. However, in general, people who are capable of giving and receiving genuinely love in their marriage seen to be more capable of giving and receiving love in other relationships.
People that have been married for a long time don´t love each other passionately, they are more like friends. The parents relationship doesn´t affect their love for their kids. That´s something different entirely.