How come when I am being calm, it makes the other person even more angry?


Would be wrong to share the actual convo. So here is the abridged version.

Me: Need favour.
Her: Ok. Friends told me to not to do anything for free anymore.
Me: Sometimes friends can be over controlling. (In a real effort to explain something I have felt for a long time)
Her: I was being sarcastic. Stop assuming.
Me: *Explanation*. Sorry.
Her: Going through a lot. You pissed me off. won't help you anymore.
Me: Its okay. Best of luck with whatever is bothering you.
Her: *attempts to hurt me*
Me: That was not what I meant. *Explanation*. Regardless, made a mistake. Don't know what else to say.
Her: Stop being abnoxious.
Me: Bye
Her: *Attempts to hurt me again* *blocks me*
How come when I am being calm, it makes the other person even more angry?
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