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while I believe i’m good it’s all based on perception and reception.There are times and mostly i say be protective of and respect your parents but know when you have to yell to put everything in place.Sometimes family dynamics are dysfunctional mostly actually. You do need to put your experiences as a priority in real life education. Do not rob yourself of learning at least do so without self sabotage.Being traditional or chaste don’t qualify as virtues. For they are the ones who sin easily and spread fallacy, act superior and usually have no merit or credit to their worth, personally or financially empty.That you may experience after you unmask their narcissistic unveiling. The golden child often complied to every whim and desire of their parents on face value, but often are statistically problem youth in their own lives. When faced with adversity they buckle.whilst being a golden child is looked upon as a good child i disagree strongly.A good child defines my first intro not the latter part.
How do you define, being a 'GOOD' one?Giving up your career, and LIFE, to care for your father, after a stroke, then another, and another, then Cancer?Starting over, having NOTHING, trying to do the RIGHT thing, caring for a parent, but totally trashing your career, relationship, and life?Staying by the bed, for hours, hanging on each breath, hoping it wouldn't be the last, but knowing he wasn't getting better, then feeling HORRIBLE for just wishing he would pass, be in a better place, and then, try to rebuild your life from NOTHING?Is that enough, to be 'GOOD'?
I’m certain aspects. I’m not that emotionally public kind of person that tells their parents (on the phone for example) that I love them. I make them cards for their bday and I’m their daughter so it’s a given that I love them. But I do think I am a good daughter, I don’t go out barely at all (unfortunately) and I don’t ask them for too much. I am certainly better than most of those girls out there my age (not to toot my own horn but still), I don’t go out to parties every night (or clubbing since I’m 19 now) and post embarrassing pics of myself drunk. I’m very respectable and I think my parents like that about me but they often forget how other girls my age act and I feel like I don’t get much credit for being the way I am.
No parent should constantly be worried that their child will die because of their constant shitty life choices. No parent should have to let their druggy child crash on their couch. No parent should have to pay their child's bills because they spent bill money on pills. No parent should have to give their child tuition money blissfully unaware that their child has already been dropped from the student body.No, I've been a terrible excuse for a daughter and I can never make up for that.
I'm literally putting off my dreams by working a job I hate. It pays well and I can pay off my families crazy debts. can't go too specific, but generally If I was an ass, I'd escape saying 'not my problem.'. I'm taking some of the weight off their shoulders and onto my own. Self sacrifice is rare enough that I think it could count.
You sound amazing 😊
To my dad I'm nice to him but I don't really like talking to him most of the time because he's usually drugged up and for my mom and step-dad I guess I was bad because they were abusive whenever I lived with them but luckily I don't see them anymore. So I don't really know if I'm a good daughter or not
I was a pretty good kid but there is some things I wish I could apologize for but my parents are both gone. I want to say sorry to my mom that when she was going through menopause I thought she just looked like she was overly sensitive. Now that I had the same bad time I wish I could say sorry I didn't know how bad she felt.
I was terrible to my father in his final months. He was an absent father most of my life, refused to stop drinking to keep in touch, and was occasionally abusive. That said, I should have at least said goodbye. I don't regret my decision, but I could have been better.With my mother, we've had our issues, but I don't feel like a good son because I'm unable to provide a better life for her.
Yes when my Mother was living i was a good Son to her. I have no regrets but my Sisterhad a Child at age 32 , well my Mother was very sick. She told my Sister your going to haveto take care of the baby cause i can't care for her anymore. So my Sister had grow up andit took sometime but my Sister got her life together. So sad cause my Mom only lived tosee my Niece to be age 2 years old. Now my Niece just turned age 18 on August 2 2019.
I believe I'm a good daughter. My parents think so, so who am I to disagree. I'm not perfect, but being a good child has nothing to do with being perfect.
I have divosed myself from my mother as I was lied to about my biological father who I did not grow up with this and she is racists two things I refuse to abide to.I have a very loving huge family here in Quebec who love me for who I am.
With my dad's death I've honestly questioned that about myself. Did I do the right things by him before he died
Yes, I truly am. I am angel and mom has thanked God for having a good daughter like me.
Somehow I’m more of a disappointment then my brother who knocked up a girl at 17 (last year) 😐 then again he’s marrying the girl later this year so it makes sense why 😒😞
Oh my... just beat him at getting good grades and a good career
Well I’m not in school anymore so I can’t lol but I mean I’m an EMT but somehow that’s still disappointing 😐😒😞
Don’t worry, as long as you believe in yourself that’s all that matters.What’s an EMT btw?
You know the people in ambulances? That’s an EMT, im one of those
Ooh, that’s what I thought. Well good for you then! That’s a respectable job!
Aww thanks, my family doesn’t like so though 😒 “I thought you were going to do something cool with your life?” 😐
What’s cool to them? Getting a child pregnant 😶
Or settling down Ig? Idfk im trying my best not to question it and move away from them
I wanna move far away from my family too, none of them give a shit about me except my parents.
Oh I’m sorry 😕 you can come live with me and my roommate if you want 😜😂 we’ve got space
Haha it’s family that doesn’t live with me like cousins and that.
Oooo, makes sense 😂
Nah I'm 1000% a piece of shit daughter. Yet somehow I'm still the favorite
I try my best to be but feel like I can do better sometimes
I could definitely improve on some stuff, even though they were always pretty distrustful, whatever I was like, so now I just make stuff easier for myself because I will get the same result from them either way.
Only reason my mother is out of my life is she cost me a job and threatens to kill my s. o and his son and sayz god and her church will forgive her
It's one of the few things I've done right I've been a good daughter
I know in my heart I am. Unfortunately, my mom has a favorite son whose quirks will always overshadowed any good the rest of us ever did.
Duh! I always show appreciation to my mother through actions and words, sadly it'll never be enough as what she gave me could never even be estimated.
I never met my dad and my mom wishes she never had me. I’m not a good daughter but she wasn’t a good mom either. But everything I am I owe to her. Every petty, damaged, slutty, self hating, spiteful ounce of me.
Yes i believe i am a good daughter however i never follow my parents advises which makes them disappointed.
No but my parents were big enough abusive asshole the county gave me a permit to build a dance club over there graves
I like to believe I am. My parents were the best raising me so I give them everything I can back. I visit as much as possible.
I would like to believe I'm a good daughter I do as told follow rules most of my mom's friends kids have smoked drank slept around stolen things snuck out partied I've never done anything
I said bad because I was constantly getting yelled even belted in some cases at for stupid shit from school such as having trouble grasping certain concepts and not being able to finish my homework before dinner. I am not a bad person but this has left me feeling like a bad son all the time.
My parents say that I'm a good daughter and I believe them.
I'm in the middle area. I'm not shitty, but i don't show my appreciation enough.
Don't know about good... fair too middling most likely.
I'm a vary good daughter. I'm the GirlyBoy of the family.
I always Thought so, Yes... xxoo
No but parents weren't exactly great either.
Yes, I believe that I am a good daughter.
Im the kid who actually takes care of her
I hope my folks regarded me as such.
Hell I believe I’m a good son.
My parents consider me a good son.
I believe I am a good daughter.
I'm a parasite and an embarrassment
No, I can't claim that I am a good daughter.
I know I am.
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