Well we were fwbs and close friends and things were getting more serious as in he was getting jealous and protective.. I had enough and told him off once and for all and he blocked me after 2 years and then unblocked me... this happened a year ago and my heart still hurts. We argued a lot and I think we both had enough. But up until 5 months ago he was keeping tabs on my social media when we didn’t even follow eachother anymore. I know he has a girlfriend and etc but I wonder if he ever misses me or regrets what happened.. I know it sounds ridiculous but I can’t help how hurt I am still.
if you wanna do something then just do it. Never hurts to ask
I would be scared to do that. Maybe it’s an over exaggeration to say he forgot about me but I don’t know if he’d be happy to hear from me aside from gaining a massive ego boost. I never reacted when I knew he was keeping tabs on me. And I don’t wanna give it to me. I wish he would say something first.
it's up to you. But sometimes in life we just gotta force ourselves out of our comfort zone and gather all the courage we have to do things otherwise we'l be stuck in the past and not move on.
... he has a girlfriend. Although that didn’t stop him from being curious about me. I think that’d be inappropriate of me?
oh... then i don't know. Good luck on that one, it's a difficult one.I do know one thing, my Ex was more encouraged to leave me and started thinking of other guys right away because a friend she liked to chat with ended up confessing to her that he loves her.
while knowing that she was my girlfriend.
Well yeah that’s the thing. This may sound a bit ridiculous but I know that they have a toxic relationship because he’s a toxic and jealous person and I’ve seen things that would suggest that he’s the same with everyone and if I were in her shoes I wouldn’t want to have a boyfriend that looks at his past friends/fwbs pictures so I would never reach out. Maybe it’s just an ego thing for me but do guys forget girls that they had sex with and were really close to? He stopped looking at my stuff a few months ago.. does that mean he’s completely forgotten about me or..
Or maybe it was a way for me to notice and reach out to him and when he saw it wasn’t working he just stopped?
No one forgets anyone they slept with. As far as i knowAlso how do u even know he checked ur pics and that he stopped?
Because a couple weeks after he blocked me I suddenly saw his username appearing again so I knew he unblocked me. And obviously I check who views my stories and I noticed he was looking at my stories and my Instagram highlights back when Instagram let you see who viewed them. He was doing this pretty often despite having a new girlfriend. He was also upset that I was seeing someone before we got into a huge fight that ended everything so maybe he still assumed that I was which is why he never reached out again. The last time that I know he was looking at my stuff was in April, a few days after his birthday, probably wondering why I didn’t say happy birthday to him. After that, he stopped as far as I know. I know somewhere inside of him he missed me. But he said a lot of horrible things when we had that huge fight like “I don’t care about you” etc to hurt me. And I know he will never apologize.
My ex when we fight she would tell me really hurtful things. But she said when she's mad she just loses it and say those things without really meaning them. And i know she never meant them.
Yeah it happens and it’s shitty. Oh well, maybe me and him will resolve it months or years from now or maybe never at all. It just ended so abruptly that I feel like we both have nothing to say but so much to say at the same time if that makes sense but he’s in a relationship and I’m occupied with a lot too.
Best of luck to you!
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Really? Lol your point is valid but you’re actually able to completely forget about someone? I guess it’s different for all of us
It depends on what caused the cut off
Well what if it was a really bad argument and it was a rash decision and both people never had the balls to apologize
@AskerThat sounds like a childish couple who haven't yet matured. One of you has to step up and mature.You don't cut off someone like that unless they have done something really bad to you that you find unforgivable. If a couple cut each other off after every horrible argument then everyone will become single.