I dont talk to people first, anyone else like this?

So apart from long term friends, family or someone i'm close with i never message first.

What i mean is its not because i don't want to talk to them, its because i gather if they want to talk to me they just will?
i feel also i want someone to talk to me because they want to and not just reply because they're being polite basically too, i do with people who i'm close to or people who have been in my life a long time, but otherwise i rarely do it...
Should i change this, or does my logic make sense that if they wanted to talk to me they will?
I dont talk to people first, anyone else like this?
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I'm always the one to message first
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