Is asking my future wife for 4 children unreasonable?

I've been wanting a house in the countryside, a wife, 4 children and two pets for over 10 years now... but every time I tell people of my life plan they say "4 children is too many".

I'm looking for advice from women who want many children and men who are fathers with the many challenges I may face with 4.
Is asking my future wife for 4 children unreasonable?
Is asking my future wife for 4 children unreasonable?
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