Totally agree but I don't wanna have a child later in life because there's other things I wanna do and plus it's more hard on your body but for me the latest would be my early 30s like 30,31 but ofc we'll be ready:)
As far as you wanting to do things in life: it’s best to get those done generally before having kids. Because when you have a child you have to put their needs in front of your own. Children are a huge commitment
What I mean by that is I wanna be young enough to always play with them, travel, etc. I've heard a lot of stories about how hard it is for women to recover after birth if their body is older and by the time I am older and my child is older I can relax my body more. And yeah most definitely it's a lifetime commitment and I have a lot of patience and love to give. Me and my boyfriend probably will only have 1 or 2 but I'd still be blessed with one child. I'm at the point now where I'm preparing myself with a good career and next a place together with my boyfriend and we are gonna enjoy our time and do things then plan a child. I just asked this question because I was curious what other people think about the age factor but I'm slowly learning it's more about timing too.
Ah, that makes sense. And yeah, timing and being 100% ready (or as ready as you can be) before trying to have children is the largest part. Age is obviously a factor for fertility and such but that’s smaller in comparison to the latter.
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My boyfriend is younger than me, I'm 5 years older so we plan to wait another 5-6 years. Hopefully I can get him to have one before 30 lol or at least at 30. By then we'll be more stable.
I don't want children myself butAs an only child, male, and the product of an only son himself, I HAVE toNamesake baby