Ok your absolute right. It cannot linger no more!!! I want to leave state basically running away with out “law” attacking me. From protecting my little family.
well i understand your feeling but if you do that then he can fight you through the courts and you will look like the bad mother rather than someone trying to protect her kids...
So he visit When ever he fuck feelTo do?Just pop in whenever he feels the need , desire? His empty ness
he does not have that legal right... visits must be pre aranged and they do not need to be at your home but can be at an agreed place such as muck muckdonalds or in a social workers family room
His visitation schedule should be on the custody agreement. If there is nothing about it, then he visits when you decide it is appropriate.
FuckHe don’t care disregard. Exactly what I want , or ask...
I would have to see the wording of the custody agreement to see what your rights are. They vary case by case
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So I may leave state this whole time!
depends... having sole custody doesn't mean you automatically have the right to prevent the father from seeing his child unless stipulated in the court
@wankiam I would love to prevent He is Disney dad No care for kids or loveJust be fun and drop them off! I’m sad! This is mean he is mean
im sure he is but please consider this... what will your child think if you say no you can't see daddy anymore? rightly or wrongly the child will resent you so its a very difficult situation to be in and you need to be careful how you handle it
@wankiam he is evil. They tell me they doNot want to go! This feelings is unbearable
ok then your next step is to go through the courts im afraid.
or only allow mediated visits meaning a social worker is present when he has access
@wankiam please listen He is not a dad. He is not fun, nurturing , caring , funny. He buys them shit and drops them off to me... I could kill him
He comes around when he feels like it than when he feels like he his words always I got to go I got to go. Go where?
yeah i got that from the question and im not defending him, im merely making you aware of your legal position and as mentioned, how your kids may react in the future.
@wankiam I appreciate man. I’m heavily worried. I wish keep on wishing he is dead , gone, picked up fling somewhere far away. Ruined me. I’m so broken. Children being tossed around z no wonder I want to die most of the time