*Catholic, not the generic "Christian".
Sounds an awful lot like how my girl was raised 😢
A parents offspring is a reflection of them. If they find it difficult to put up with their reflection than maybe it is difficult for them to accept themselves and If that's the case communication is key however not every parent is willing to face their short comings. It's easier to blame the kid and say he or she is a nuisance but then again the truth is painful and people fear pain because it makes them suffer. No human is perfect, no parent is perfect, our world is not perfect but conflict resolution skills are an established source. Most parents interested in wanting to solve a conflict make use of them. Others who'd rather avoid the elephant in the room say that of course we love our children. Meanwhile they have no idea who their children are. They have no idea who they are.
Parents can and often with a difficult child show stricter behavioural rules Can often seem that you don't love them I always told my children I'm so proud and and loved them very much I was a strict father of so I believed As majority of parents will tell you You can't be a friend you must be a parent Love Guide and boundaries
That makes sense
Whats your situation
Well my parents say they love me but only under certain conditions. To me that is interest and not love. I told them about this and they didn't want to talk about it. Some people don't like to look at the truth because they fear the outcome of the results.
I think you are loved by them They seem to have a communication problem I think they are trying to parent you What should be clear is that They love you unconditionally but want you to respect there boundaries Its just not clear in the way they say it
Triff I think you assume a lot of what you don't know. You think my parents love me but you dont know me or my parents. You're just a parent yourself and feel the need to defend parents everywhere. Maybe you've got some lingering guilt within the words I've said. I'm just really realistic triff. I'm ok with my parents not loving me.
I think that this is so sad How can you not love your own child You shouldn't be alright with it Have you any brothers or sisters
Triff the world is not ideal and its not a fairytale. We are born alone and we will die alone. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter of others love you what matters is that you love you.
If you were my daughter not only would I love you I feel very proud of the person you have come
Triff thats very sweet but you know what they say another man's garbage is another man's treasure hahah
Well I'm happy to be your advisor what ever it might be x
Awww thanks triff I appreciate it. It's really nice of you!
Everyone deserves to have someone looking out for them
That's sweet. They are lucky to have you as a father. Not every parent loves their kids no matter what or for who they are.
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Hmm I know what you mean. My parents dont love me in any version. Hahhaha
That's awesome to hear. You're very lucky
Thanks! Hope to do the same with my future kids.
Sounds like a plan. They will be very lucky to have you as a mom
Yep! That's typical
Interesting? What was the love you experienced?
One of my fondest memories of my mother was laying with my head in her lap while she was high out of her mind and petting me like a cat.
Yeah I know that ! Thanks captain obvious!
But YOU asked the stupid question. First mate obvious!Don't be worried about how or why your parents love you. Just spend as much time as you can and enjoy them. Don't over think things.
It's not a stupid question your attitude is stupid because there are no such thing as stupid questions. What is stupid for you might not be for me what is stupid for me might not be for you. If you think my question is stupid you should not reply to it because why would you want to reply to someone you consider to be stupid? Do you see who is stupid in these actions? It's not the question its You! Now that I've cleared that up I'm not worried about my parents love. You don't know who I am what I am or how I feel. When you're done assuming like 90% of the time maybe then you should take the liberty of replying to any of my posts. If you're gonna be a dickhead go be a dickhead on someone else's time not mine.
You really are dumber than fuck aren't you? Miss knowitall. GTFO
You're dumber than fuck toots lol!
Kettle. Black. Much?
Hahhahahaha! I'm glad you're not angry anymore.
I never was. You read to much into all this bullshit. I'm near dead, all my kids are older than you. So I answer with great experience, wisdom, and knowledge. LOL
Browneye57 you were angry though. It's ok if you don't want to admit it! I understand with age people become more stubborn! Lol.
Unfortunately, you cannot read emotion into the written word. So it may simply look a certain way to you, and then usually you project your own emotions into the dialog. This is why you can't forge a relationship by texting - there is no emotion, no body language, so you miss out on at least half of what's being communicated.No, no anger, I just throw some shit that matches the other shit that's thrown out here. You take yourself too seriously, you have a much higher self value that what is truly there. An image in your own mind.What is telling is that you come here with your silly little questions, looking for attention and validation, without any quest for real answers or knowledge. It just makes you look dumb. I just calls 'em as I sees 'em.
Browneye57 it seems like you're still angry. I'll let you simmer in your own filth for now.
An fyi Browneye57 it would be projecting if I came to your post to reply to your question through insults. I'm not projecting because I did none of that. You're the one coming to reply to my post being all rude and what not. You say I cannot see but you're the one who can't see yourself and your actions let alone others. I wish you best of luck and I hope you get better soon.
You whine too much. IDGAFAnother entitled special little snowflake - you actually believe anyone owes you something. That's really dense. You're one of those little safe-space kidlettes that can't stand any adversity - if someone disagrees with you they're rude. TOO FUCKING BAD. LOL
Nah you're rude when you behave in a rude manner. This isn't a question of disagreement because I agreed with you on the comment you made on my question. I dont agree with you harassing me and calling me names. You're rude because you insult people not because we are disagreeing. And by the way snowflakes are beautiful but I ain't no Snowflake nor do I flake. You don't know me at all so take your bullshit somewhere else ok bud. Go shit on someone else's posts if you don't like mine.
you're one of the lucky few!
Hahahha hangry22 thats like saying they love you cause they have to
Yep. That's the truth. They do love me because i am a human being too🥺
Hahaha hangry22 very true. Do you think they would love you if you weren't their daughter?
Probably as a poor, human that had a hard life
So I guess what you're saying is that they love you because they feel sorry for you.
No. They love me because i am their daughter like i said at first
But if you weren't their daughter and they had the option of picking their daughter. Do you think they would pick you?
If i was a baby or had a really cruel life. This is when they will feel sorry for me
Hangry22 that doesn't answer my question though.