My dad is giving me the cold shoulder. He come home I try to talk to him, he just ignored me and gave me the cold shoulder.. went in his room and closed the door. This happen four times so far. My parents are separated, they are getting a divorce. It's been hard, I spend time with them both equally. What did I do wrong? I also beleive he told my grandmother some lies because now she's mad at me for no reason. I just want to get away... it makes me feel depressed... like I'm a big failure. The only time he really talks to me if he wants something to eat or money for the bills.