Even if you drag the platonic part on for months or years?
In my experience, yes.
3 weeks isn’t long at all.
that's my point. He didn't drag it on and on to the point where we were bodies and like a brother and sister. He saw that I considered him a friend and a classmate who I enjoyed hanging out with. So one day he just told me that he would wish if I see him more than just a friend and a classmate. I honestly before that did not consider anything with him. I guess he didn't want to risk being friendzoned forever.
So you think if a guy drags it on for months or years, he basically makes it impossible for her to ever see him as anything more than friends?
I think it is possible yes
Even if she liked him at first?
Listen sit her down and talk to her. No one here can fix this between the two of you. If she refuses than you make the choice to leave or remain friends. But talk to her.
But I’m worried I’ll lose her as a friend. I’d be devastated to lose her as a friend when I rely on her for an emotional connection at a time when we have to limit our contact with people.
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