I absolutely love this answer. I'd pin it to the top if I could. Open vulnerability is definitely a skill most people dont have, or dont want to have because they undervalue its importance.You're right it takes self awareness, then the courage to share your findings. Keep being awesome my dude.
I'll do my best. I hope it helps someone out there.
Love that bro. That's trust on a deep level and those connections are absolutely the best.
I love this answer. Letting go of the ego is so powerful and so difficult.Learning to understand where the other person is coming from, and to respect them for the choices and the growth they've made has been all the difference in my relationships. Not just with my wife but with friends and family too.Thanks for that answer! Great input.
Those are all great answers. I like especially where you said be open to grow together. I think that's pretty key. And hard to find someone who will go on that journey with you.
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I love that. Trust can be hard but so pivotal to a happy relationship.
I know my answer :) but I was curious to see what other people think
So would you say deep honesty and vulnerability?In my experience you're right. Most people are pretty superficial and won't talk about real stuff.
Yeah that too, having standards and values as well as honesty, trust, and vulnerability, all make a person much deeper and compassionate than your average typical personMost people lie, they're morbidly dishonest and selfish and they don't think what consequences their actions might have in the future
Yeah I agree with that. Too often things fester when they're not discussed.
Absolutely! Listening is key.I'm not sure if we can even have true love for someone we don't really understand.
Thanks :) keep putting yourself out there and the right one will come!
Yeah... I’m in a rural area. That the next town with a bigger population, is an hour drive with icy roads. But thanks 😅
How is a beautiful girl like you single?
@Twenty2 As I said, I live in a rural area. In the middle of nowhere, filled with old country folks.
Rural area, middle of nowhere with you - Sounds like heaven 😍 where is this place?
I meant to ask where are you from 😅
So then would you say take more time listening/understanding?
Yeah. Just be cool.
I feel that
Aligned goals are very important!
If the goals are different it will be very difficult to get along on this long journey, and unnecessary fights will happen. But make no mistake things go wrong on this existence. It'd be easier to suffer other problems instead of having romance drama. However, much you prevent it.. it will always happen. Was thinking to have random arguments for the sake of it.
It happens. Like hopping on a horse to go retrieve the cattle but the horse just wants a drink of water.When people talk at each other, both wanting attention and to be understood, progress is hard.My solution is go get the water first. (Make it my goal to understand where the other person is coming from) then I can share with an awareness of where the other person is at.
That's 3 things but I love your answer
Way to a man's heart