Do you ever feel obligated to do social stuff that you don't want to do?

[AlienParasite]

Sure. I think beign animals who live in societies and communities it's normal to sometimes having to socialize even if you don't want. We sometimes have to do it despite we don't want because at the end of the day we need the group and we want to keep belonging to the group. We don't want people to get mad at us and feel out of the group.

Beign less abstract, we could go to a wedding despite we dislike weddings because we want our mother to be happy and keep a good relationship with her. Or we could go to the bar with workmates because that help us to get on better with them and will make us be in a better working environment, so we force ourselves even if we don't feel like socializing right in that moment.

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes I’ve gotten tired from having conversations with guests before cause I’m trying to think of intelligent things to say to keep the conversation going

[Anon621]

I haven't had that feeling yet. I definitely hate being around a lot of people at one time just because I just hate to imagine 30 people all firing rapid questions at me

[jshm2]

Thats rather weak and silly of you if you do.

You do that sort of thing in school to impress the crush or teacher. Not as an adult.

[iseekpinetrees]

I used to but now no I could care less how others feel. I have a lot of health factors keeping me from going places.

[Liam_Hayden]

No. I avoid social entanglement with people who would try to obligate me in that way. and I don't try to obligate anyone, either. I go and do what I want and ask my friends if they want to join. If they do, cool. If they don't, that is cool, too.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

Nah

One of the few perks of being an introvert.
You show the middle finger to peer pressure.

[Biancatsumi1991]

Yeah. Sometimes we are forced by the society or even our family to do things we don't really wanna do just because they think it's the right thing to do.

[Bee-Hatch]

That's life. Nobody gets to do just what they want all of the time.

[chapawapa]

God yes. Fuck that I say no... Or I stay for a very short time and leave

[Don-__-Don]

Only if it has to do with a goal that I can't have achieved any other way.

[YoHoeRose]

As some one with social anxiety EVERYTHING feels obligated

[SaraSmithishere]

No, because I’m a hardcore introvert and everyone accepts me as such.

[SavageGirl101]

Umm no cause if I don’t wanna do it then I’m not going to (unless my friends really need me)

[Gedaria]

At times, when the family gets together, it can be a bit over powering.

[JakeS00]

No. But sometimes I don’t mind it because I feel like it’s good to get out of the house.

[Anonymous]

Yes, is a fact it life. The best you can do is limit it.

[Iamcoming]

Yes sometimes feel. Because life have too add somethings

[Anonymous]

Yes, attending relatives weddings for example. I can say no to birthdays but I have a hard time saying no to attend weddings. Not that they happen very often.

[jimmy2]

In this pandemic i doubt this Christmas is going to be that good. We trying to just make it through

[TheAfrikan]

Ha haha ha real life shit I do.

[sheikalana]

Not at all.

[Sweetener_]

Sometimes

[In_Trance]

Not very often

[Anonymous]

No no not yet.