I'm the black sheep of my family and they tell me everyday?

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Im a half American half korean living in Korea and I have 2 older sister's and 3 older brothers and a younger twin brother. 2 of my older brothers are training to be in the kpop industry. My oldest brother and sister are at a very successful point in their careers, and my twin is very academically great in school. All my siblings are pretty and handsome and that's a big deal because of the beauty standards in Korea. I on the other hand am the black sheep of the family... I did get lighter coloured eyes but I have a never ending pimply face and i am chubby. All my siblings say that I was switched at the hospital at birth. They give me there leftovers and expect me to eat them while they make pig noises, or they come in my room to brag about their accomplishments or their "pretty" face and then say at the end " oh, wait, you can't relate can you".

The only nice sibling I have is my step oldest brother and he calls me beautiful everyday but when he says it in front of my family most of them snicker or my mum would have the nerve to say "don't give her false hope"...
I hate my life everyday and everyday my family seem to know that and make me feel worse.
It got to the point where I thought if I killed myself would they regret their taunts and words... but then I would never know, I did say this to my twin brother who I'm closest to in the family, and he said that "no we wouldn't care cause then we wouldn't have to hide you from our relatives". I know of course he was joking and maybe they all were but that doesn't change the way their words make me feel.
I love painting and could say I'm okay at it but my family disapproves and say even if I did get famous with them once people see a picture of me they'd faint In a second.

I'm sick of it all so very much... please anyone tell me what I can say to all of them that would make them realize what they're saying hurts me so much... please give me a speech I could say to them that would guilt struck them... please just help me

Answer 1

jaybee281

Xper 5

Don't make them feel guilt - That's victim minded - Go back at them - Insult them back - And if they say something then say that I'm just acting towards you the way you act towards me - if they say that they're joking then you say you're also joking (don't believe it obviously they're being passive aggressive) - but remain calm and insult them in a witty way and never show weakness or anger (in your tone and voice and face and body language remain monotonous and don't react to whatever they say while keeping that smug face) - Watch their body language and reactions whatever makes them tick keep your insults revolved around that - I know this might sound like an uphill battle especially against yourself but you sometimes have to stand up for yourself otherwise people will walk all over you and keep walking as if like you weren't there - you're not their fuckin joke and you should act like it - If you need help with anything tell me..

jaybee281

24 d
One more thing though - Get rid of the pimples and get rid of being chubby - Not about your family just better in life that I know from experience - Use Accutane for your face and know what makes your face breakout (could easily be hot paste or hot sauce or too much sodium these are my best bets for you eat Korean food probably) - For the chubbiness easily eat less food and better food (nothing fried and no stupid sugary shit) and do cardio as much as you can - whether it is on a treadmill or masturbating when you feel like you need dopamine that you usually get from food - Hope this helps and hope you act on it.

Answer 2

jaybee281

One more thing though - Get rid of the pimples and get rid of being chubby - Not about your family just better in life that I know from experience - Use Accutane for your face and know what makes your face breakout (could easily be hot paste or hot sauce or too much sodium these are my best bets for you eat Korean food probably) - For the chubbiness easily eat less food and better food (nothing fried and no stupid sugary shit) and do cardio as much as you can - whether it is on a treadmill or masturbating when you feel like you need dopamine that you usually get from food - Hope this helps and hope you act on it.

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