I never felt this much pain in my heart by purposely ignoring my best female friend, she hate my guts now, what I should do?

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12 d

so Friday what happened was I told her if I was mad at you again the next day and I ask what will you do? She said nothing so for the first hours when I was ignoring her I was hoping she will say something but she didn't it been so many times she walk pass me without even speaking to me

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It just the fact she my bestfriend female friend thats why it hurts so much

Answer 1

razelove | 75 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

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Well, important detail you left out, why did you ignore her, and why does she hate you for it. Did y'all sleep with each other or something?

Yuuibtony

12 d
No because the day before I ignore her and it bother her so when I ask her what if I ignore her again? and she told me she will not do anything about it and she did nothing like she said i guess she tired of my bs I ignore her a couple times before
razelove

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Well, there's a trick I've used before, apologize, but apologize for it being their fault, and all of the pain it caused you. You're acting like a child already, might as well take it to the max, and if you mix up what you're trying to say you'll get her laughing.

It's a win/win, if you pull it off she'll feel bad and stop giving you grief, maybe even get closer to you, if you don't she'll think you've got a sense of humor after all. You know, instead of randomly ignoring people irl, which is pretty strange man. I'd consider not doing that unless the alternative is violence of the grievous and possibly life ending sort.

Answer 2

Yuuibtony

No because the day before I ignore her and it bother her so when I ask her what if I ignore her again? and she told me she will not do anything about it and she did nothing like she said i guess she tired of my bs I ignore her a couple times before

Answer 3

razelove

Well, there's a trick I've used before, apologize, but apologize for it being their fault, and all of the pain it caused you. You're acting like a child already, might as well take it to the max, and if you mix up what you're trying to say you'll get her laughing.

It's a win/win, if you pull it off she'll feel bad and stop giving you grief, maybe even get closer to you, if you don't she'll think you've got a sense of humor after all. You know, instead of randomly ignoring people irl, which is pretty strange man. I'd consider not doing that unless the alternative is violence of the grievous and possibly life ending sort.

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micheal727jovanie | 202 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

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What you did to make her hate you?

Yuuibtony

12 d
Because i purposely ignore her all day at work so the last hours of working she did not say anything to me even when i said hi to her one time she walk away
Napoli

12 d
Dude, that's nothing. She'll be over it by tomorrow and trying to get your attention.
Yuuibtony

12 d
Don't know, she literally sat across from the table while i was sitting and we was face to face her eyes was across the side while I was looking at her she did not make eye contact with me at all
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micheal727jovanie

12 d
Why did you ignored her?
Yuuibtony

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Just to test how she react
micheal727jovanie

12 d
@Yuuibtony thats not nice I'd apologize and tell her I hope you forgive me. Thats how guys get played because they play these little game. Why would you want to test her?
micheal727jovanie

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@Yuuibtony works already a shitty place to be in as it is.
Yuuibtony

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I too scared to even look at her because Sunday I try to say hi to her and she walk away from me
micheal727jovanie

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@Yuuibtony what where you testing her for?
micheal727jovanie

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Coronavirus?
Yuuibtony

12 d
Don't do that, that isn't funny, never mind i done talking to you
micheal727jovanie

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@Yuuibtony but just tell me why were you testing? Just answer that and I might give you some awesome advice. I do want to help.
Yuuibtony

12 d
Her reaction of me ignoring her, I thought you were trying to be funny
micheal727jovanie

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Were you trying to make her like you more? You're not giving me full details.
micheal727jovanie

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Just tell her the whole truth. Like a DEA officer once told me when I was handcuffed "the truth will set you free." She might hate you but at least you where honest. There's a lot of guys who play TOO MUCH and thats they're alone.
Yuuibtony

12 d
No, i not i just don't like how she totally ignore me after what I did to her.
micheal727jovanie

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@Yuuibtony because you started that shit if you can't man up and take responsibility for your actions then your going to be alone.

Answer 5

Yuuibtony

Because i purposely ignore her all day at work so the last hours of working she did not say anything to me even when i said hi to her one time she walk away

Answer 6

Napoli

Dude, that's nothing. She'll be over it by tomorrow and trying to get your attention.

Answer 7

Yuuibtony

Don't know, she literally sat across from the table while i was sitting and we was face to face her eyes was across the side while I was looking at her she did not make eye contact with me at all

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micheal727jovanie

Why did you ignored her?

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Yuuibtony

Just to test how she react

Answer 10

micheal727jovanie

@Yuuibtony thats not nice I'd apologize and tell her I hope you forgive me. Thats how guys get played because they play these little game. Why would you want to test her?

Answer 11

micheal727jovanie

@Yuuibtony works already a shitty place to be in as it is.

Answer 12

Yuuibtony

I too scared to even look at her because Sunday I try to say hi to her and she walk away from me

Answer 13

micheal727jovanie

@Yuuibtony what where you testing her for?

Answer 14

micheal727jovanie

Coronavirus?

Answer 15

Yuuibtony

Don't do that, that isn't funny, never mind i done talking to you

Answer 16

micheal727jovanie

@Yuuibtony but just tell me why were you testing? Just answer that and I might give you some awesome advice. I do want to help.

Answer 17

Yuuibtony

Her reaction of me ignoring her, I thought you were trying to be funny

Answer 18

micheal727jovanie

Were you trying to make her like you more? You're not giving me full details.

Answer 19

micheal727jovanie

Just tell her the whole truth. Like a DEA officer once told me when I was handcuffed "the truth will set you free." She might hate you but at least you where honest. There's a lot of guys who play TOO MUCH and thats they're alone.

Answer 20

Yuuibtony

No, i not i just don't like how she totally ignore me after what I did to her.

Answer 21

micheal727jovanie

@Yuuibtony because you started that shit if you can't man up and take responsibility for your actions then your going to be alone.

I never felt this much pain in my heart by purposely ignoring my best female friend, she hate my guts now, what I should do?

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