Are you ever afraid to tell your friend something you’ve done?

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Asking because my friend just told me he did drugs for the first time. Then did them again 2 more times. He kept asking if I hated him and seemed concerned.

Answer 1

Jjpayne | 1.6K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

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I'd watch them, drugs are nothing to play around with. I'd be careful to check on them. But for me, id been simply afraid to tell my church or friends that I'm on here simply because if they saw what I do on here, they would probably try to pray it out of me 🙄 and judge me harshly for being here...

Answer 2

SpiritBear

Xper 7

Absolutely. There are things that I’ve done that aren’t even harmful that I’m deathly afraid of telling all but my closest of friends. And even then it’s hella hard to. Cuz all I have in my life are my friends

Pennypolish

9 d
What do you think of my situation? We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd

Answer 3

Pennypolish

What do you think of my situation? We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd

Answer 4

AffectionKing

Xper 5

Lol i wouldn't care. I'm an open book unless it deals with the women im talking to.

Pennypolish

9 d
What do you think of my situation? We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd
AffectionKing

9 d
He know he shoukdn't do it and tink you would think less of him
Pennypolish

9 d
He was very adamant about telling me about it when I saw him! But if he knows he shouldn’t have done it- why do it 3x? Lol.

I definitely felt very turned off lol. I think he noticed and kept asking if I hated him. I just said he’s growing up and experiencing life and that’s ok. I was just used to a different him. Then he tried to justify it and tell me he won’t do it again. Blah blah. but all his friends are into stuff now- so I’m sure he’ll do it again.

We carried on our talking for another hour so maybe he thinks things are cool now. But I’m still upset about it
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AffectionKing

9 d
But did your fantasy become reality yet?
Pennypolish

9 d
Fantasy? No lol
AffectionKing

9 d
Lol good. I know you were glsd to see him though
Pennypolish

9 d
I was-until I heard about that. Now I’m unsure if I want to see him again. it ended poorly in my head- and maybe he didn’t notice my discomfort with it. Buttttt him asking if I hate him might mean he did notice?

Answer 5

Pennypolish

What do you think of my situation? We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd

Answer 6

AffectionKing

He know he shoukdn't do it and tink you would think less of him

Answer 7

Pennypolish

He was very adamant about telling me about it when I saw him! But if he knows he shouldn’t have done it- why do it 3x? Lol.

I definitely felt very turned off lol. I think he noticed and kept asking if I hated him. I just said he’s growing up and experiencing life and that’s ok. I was just used to a different him. Then he tried to justify it and tell me he won’t do it again. Blah blah. but all his friends are into stuff now- so I’m sure he’ll do it again.

We carried on our talking for another hour so maybe he thinks things are cool now. But I’m still upset about it

Answer 8

AffectionKing

But did your fantasy become reality yet?

Answer 9

Pennypolish

Fantasy? No lol

Answer 10

AffectionKing

Lol good. I know you were glsd to see him though

Answer 11

Pennypolish

I was-until I heard about that. Now I’m unsure if I want to see him again. it ended poorly in my head- and maybe he didn’t notice my discomfort with it. Buttttt him asking if I hate him might mean he did notice?

Answer 12

Lostguuy

Xper 4

I think sometimes we do things that we are ashamed of , and the hardest people to tell are the ones we care for most , because what they think matters

Pennypolish

9 d
Well that’s the thing. We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd
Lostguuy

9 d
He was probably feeling guilty

Answer 13

Pennypolish

Well that’s the thing. We’re friends but not best friends lol He seemed so concerned with me hating him. it was... odd

Answer 14

Lostguuy

He was probably feeling guilty

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