Honestly would you consider my friend the stupidest woman ever?

Question

She was married to a lawyer for nearly 8 years. She fell out of love sometime in 2016 (on the 4th year) and instead of communicating, kept postponing having kids and leading him on. She was acting a leech and user by then, living the comfortable life and just being with him for his wealth. Supposedly he was boring (not exciting anymore nor adventurous) and she wanted to get out of the routine but still hold on to him, not divorce him.

Then in 2019 she started cheating and got caught by early 2020. She got dumped (was initially unremorseful and happy about cheating) and received nothing during his divorce process. Then her lover obviously kicked her out, it didn't work out with other guys either and her mother had to get a liver transplant to save her life (the person that paid for it was none other than her ex husband). She's been remorseful since, claimed to have changed for the better, doesn't care about wealth anymore and has been trying to earn his love back (even made promises about giving him a child) but he wants nothing from her.

Honestly she had it so easy. She didn't even work, cook, clean the house (they had two maids doing it all) nor even return to college to finish her Master's. She did nothing at all and was good at nothing. All she had to do is be faithful and she couldn't even do that, losing everything. Wouldn't that make her the most stupidest woman ever?

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Updates:

1 mo

She has gone back to finish her Master's since, works and got better with the household chores. She's currently single at the moment. Her ex husband is obviously on a relationship with someone else. The guy now has more standards and a pretty woman that's faithful but has no life skills isn't enough for him anymore.

Answer 1

Prettygurl12 | 1.1K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

Money isn't the end all be all. Do I think people who cheat on their spouses are idiots? Yes. But not because of whatever resources that spouse is able to provide. I just think it's immoral to be unfaithful.

Asker

1 mo
Yes it's awful to cheat. Personally, I'll never understand betraying someone in that manner.
Prettygurl12

1 mo
Yeah, I think it makes the cheater a terrible person. Like... if they're so unhappy then break up/divorce.

Answer 2

Asker

Yes it's awful to cheat. Personally, I'll never understand betraying someone in that manner.

Answer 3

Prettygurl12

Yeah, I think it makes the cheater a terrible person. Like... if they're so unhappy then break up/divorce.

Answer 4

Elenabella

Xper 3

I would not think that your friend is the stupidest woman ever. Because as a human we make mistake and if our mistake will make us stupid so all people are stupid even children. It is easy to judge her instead of understanding the psychological reason behind her behaviour.

Answer 5

Montano_lady

Xper 4

That's a pretty low bar to beat being the stupid woman EVER hah ha

Montano_lady

1 mo
stupidest*
Asker

1 mo
As stated in my update, the guy has changed too. He isn't satisfied with a woman just being nice, cute and faithful. By now he wants an equally faithful and skillful, successful partner that works.. one that has ambitions and isn't relying on a man.
Asker

1 mo
My friend has nothing to offer when begging for his forgiveness. This sounds even stupider but she really thought that trying to get sexual with him (she admitted to me to literally taking off her shirt and bra) when visiting him at his place and making moves on him would rekindle his love towards her and that she would be taken back.
He told her to put her clothes back on and leave. LOL
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Montano_lady

1 mo
Thanks for mho

Answer 6

Montano_lady

stupidest*

Answer 7

Asker

As stated in my update, the guy has changed too. He isn't satisfied with a woman just being nice, cute and faithful. By now he wants an equally faithful and skillful, successful partner that works.. one that has ambitions and isn't relying on a man.

Answer 8

Asker

My friend has nothing to offer when begging for his forgiveness. This sounds even stupider but she really thought that trying to get sexual with him (she admitted to me to literally taking off her shirt and bra) when visiting him at his place and making moves on him would rekindle his love towards her and that she would be taken back.
He told her to put her clothes back on and leave. LOL

Answer 9

Montano_lady

Thanks for mho

Answer 10

boggboss | 1.3K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

She is stupid for not communicating and trying to get a easy ride

Asker

1 mo
Exactly. In the very moment she started falling out of love, she should've talked to him instead of letting it process to cheating. She lost everything and she regrets it to this day.
boggboss

1 mo
Meh 🤷🏽‍♂️

Answer 11

Asker

Exactly. In the very moment she started falling out of love, she should've talked to him instead of letting it process to cheating. She lost everything and she regrets it to this day.

Answer 12

boggboss

Meh 🤷🏽‍♂️

Answer 13

Paris13 | 3.7K opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.

Master

This is Always in God's Hands, dear. xx

Paris13

1 mo
Forest Gump: "Life is Like a Box of Chocolates. You never Know what You will Get."xxoo

Answer 14

Paris13

Forest Gump: "Life is Like a Box of Chocolates. You never Know what You will Get."xxoo

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