Did anyone have a full time single mom and a fun weekend dad and know when u grew up that ur mom is the one who took care of u. My biggest fear is being the "bad" parent because i do all the hard parenting alone and never have money to do anything with my son. I work 2 jobs and his dad gets him during weekends when he has activities planned. I can't even take my son to the pumpkin patch for the 1st time even though i brought it up to his dad saying how i wanted to do it and he planned to take him the 1st day the pumpkin patch was open for him to go. I feel like im missing out on so much trying to provide for my son by myself. Im drowning and i feel like im having my plans for us taken away.