Me and mutiple of my friends find older guys attractive...others are disgusted by it
- Psychological issue
Most Helpful Girl
I'd bet on psychological issues... Being attracted to guys a few years older than you is normal. We girls are more mature than boys our age, so we're attracted to (presumed) wisdom and experience of older guys. Now, being attracted to someone as old as TWICE YOUR AGE sounds odd to me. Unless you're talking about actors you're only attracted to physically - hell, I adore Johnny Depp and he's my father'a age, but I wouldn't really date him. If you're considering dating a 30-year-old, you may be insecure and see him as a paternal figure more than a partner. I know my mom and her sister started being attracted to older guys once their father (my grandpa) divorced their mother for a German gal he met during his business trip. They were trying to fill the void left by their father's absence.
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