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I know how having a baby can really make the sexual connect between a couple kind of snap. In our case, my partner lost all her interest in sex, and it was me who had to struggle to get it back on the rails.
Some things that might help:
* Try watching p*rn together, this can be quite sensual, specially if the slower party get turned on after awhile (as my partner does). If guy-porn turns you off, watch some porn-for-couples or even porn-for-women (which I find verrry sexy) or simply films with a lot of nudity.
* In bed, try new sexual positions. It was doggie-style which changed our relationship. After protesting for years about it ("animal-type sex"), she suddenly found that she enjoys it. We particularly both feel great when we do it on one particular bed. Guess it has to do with the matching heights, etc. Probably because of the many rejections, I went through a phase where I just couldn't climax myself. It was terrible. But doggie-style brought back the right sensations and cured this.
* Give him some sex he won't forget in a hurry. Do the work for a change, instead of waiting for him to initiate and "do the work". Why not offer him a sensual massage? Or just go about giving him one without him even knowing. It can be very relaxing for a guy, specially when he knows he's going to get a happy ending and a pleasurable climax without having to work for it. Use some nice natural oil (like coconut or olive) and see what he enjoys.
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