Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, I find the punky/metal look incredibly attractive :)
So, you just have to be patient! The punk/metal look isn't for everyone. And some girls might not like it. But don't change yourself. If that is truly how you are, keep it!
Try to dress nice-ish. So button up tops, nice jeans, but add a little metal/punk flair. That way you look both presentable and also keep it true to your own style :)