this rarely happens to me, so now I'm at a loss. usually I am one of the, if not the, cutest girls in the room in any given setting. now there is a new supervisor who I feel totally upstages me. she is so good looking it makes me angry. I never want to come off as a hater, so I was polite to her and spoke but its just so maddening.
I feel like I'm losing but I don't know what... how do girls deal being around someone who is prettier than them? what do you do? do you try to ignore the beauty difference? step your game up and improve your own looks (I have been slacking lately)? or spike her compact with oil when she's not looking so she suffers breakouts and goes down a few notches?
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I totally understand you, and I feel the same and yes I admit i have got problems with self confidednce. And how many times i have tried to persuade myself that i dont need to compare myself with them it does not help, just because people around do it constantly. I've been in the situation recently when i and a pretty girl were walking together and this guy came up to us and told that girl You are very beautiful then turned to me and said But you r not. So i understood that i need to discuss in this way If i can't be most beautiful then i will be most interesting and kindest which is totally depends on me. And it really helps i just relax and joke a lot and get very considerate to people around which attracts much more attention than good appearance.