How do you like your guys to look? Do you like them muscular or with a bit of flab? And where does muscle definition look hottest?
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I think girls vary wildly in what they like! Some go for big muscle men, others like a good bit of meat to grab onto, and some like em skinny!
For me personally, it's more important that a guy is fit than toned, but that's because I like quite an active lifestyle. I think my boyfriend is really handsome - he's an excellent runner, and he doesn't have an ounce of fat on him. He's lean and mean, but sooooo strong. I love running too, and his pace and athleticism really inspire me... which is a HUGE turn on! So the attraction of his physique isn't just that I think he's hot - it's that we share a hobby too!
The most important thing, though, is that his physique and fitness wouldn't mean anything at all if he wasn't also a genuinely kind, intelligent and caring person. I have dated a couple of REALLY good looking guys (male models), and the moment they opened their mouths I was completely turned off because they showed themselves to be stupid, shallow and conceited- one of them was even racist, which had me wanting to run from the restaurant as fast as I could! I'd much rather have a guy who was a bit chubby but funny, sweet and caring than a guy who was ripped and an asshole.