So I am kind of a tomboy. I love contact sports, grew up and work on a ranch and do a lot of hard labor. I never quite fit in with the girls I was around because my style is more laid back. I like flannel and vans, but also dress kind of boho and wear a lot of midriff shirts. But I do love to wear dresses when the occasion calls for it. I don't know how to style my hair and so I do not dye it or use heat tools. I have long dirty blonde hair with natural waves. I just wash it, put in some beach spray and let it do its thing. I always think that a dude would rather have really soft hair to run their hands through rather than full of hairspray, but I guess that is just my thoughts. For makeup I only really do my eyes and leave the rest because I don't like to cover my freckles.
I wear contacts but also rock some big frames. Guys tell me all the time that I am the kind of girl they would kill for because I am really laid back, but it seems like I always get looked over for the ones who wear a lot of makeup, jack their boobs up and tease their hair and wear extensions. It seems I'm always an afterthought, so I was just curious if dudes really like laid back or not? I'm pretty confident in just wearing what I want and would rather spend that extra time getting ready on actually living in the moment and having a good time. My avatar is my basic go to hair and get up. Thoughts?
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Girls who are/were tomboys are pretty easy to get along with in my experience, hence better relationship material. So long as you're these three qualities you'll be a real catch:
Feminine, but not girly