I'm 19 years old and I've had only one girlfriend and have only kissed two girls and that's as far as I've gotten. I feel confident and I feel like I walk around campus with confidence, but girls just don't seem to feel me for some reason. Girls love to be friends with me, but that's as far as it gets. I'm friend zoned by a lot of girls. I'm 5' 6" 130 lbs., so I'm on the small side and I look young, so I always wonder if this deters some girls, but I just don't know what to do. I'm a first year student at my current college (transfer from another school, so I'm a soph) and I start for the soccer team (no football here, so soccer is big) and all my teammates have no trouble with girls, but I do for some reason.
So, do you think that looking young for my age turns most girls off? Where would you honestly say I fall on the 1-10 attractiveness scale? (pics in profile)
Sorry if this is in the wrong section.
Help is much appreciated.
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9. Maybe girls are intimidated by you?
I think you need to take the initiative and talk to girls!
Keep playing soccer, girls like guys who are "into" something and walk with confidence... you'll get a girl... :) Plus, if the college girls are looking for me "experienced" guys, then they are way shallow! and I'm sure you don't want shallow! So don't bother.
Good luck! And don't sweat it.0