But she doesn't want to date me. We have been friends for 3 to 4 years, and I really like her...What could be a reason why she doesn't want to date me?
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There are a couple of reasons.. the main reason is probably because you've been friends for so long and she thinks that a relationship would change that. Face it, if you guys break up you're not ever going to be able to be friends like you are now. I'd recommend staying friends rather than pressuring her or hinting at her that you want a relationship. If you actually stop acting like you like her, she might get confused and realize that she does want a relationship, but if she doesn't, I'd say don't ruin the friendship no matter how much you like her. She probably has a reason for not dating you so just respect her decision and see what happens in time.0