My crush just got back from Iraq and he's totally discharged from the army. When he got back we met up and talked for a few. He knows I have a crush on him and he's always telling me he likes my style, I'm hot and flirting with me. I know he just got back and he needs to get some, but I'm not that type of girl. I'm waiting for a long term relationship. So, I told him that. I was like I haven't seen you in over 7 years therefore I want 2 get 2 know you better and possibly date u. He said that I can't blame him for needing sex and he hopes I don't think he's a piece of sh*t. I was like no I don't, you just have 2 understand where I'm coming from. Now that he knows that I want more, he's still talking 2 me and plans on taking me out on a date this week. Does that mean that he possibly wants more too or is he just trying to sleep with me? I mean he's a hot guy, he could have anyone he wants. I want to be the "mouse" in this situation and have him chase me. And I want him 2 fall in love with me, I could see myself with this guy for a very long time, if not forever! Any advice?
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Totally discharged, what as in he's on leave or he's upped and left for good? If he's on leave you'd be best to tread careful my love.
Don't give everything away to him on the first date. Create a veil of mystery for yourself, just let slip the bare details, blokes love a bit of intreige, it'll spark his interest and have him running back for more. Remember men chase, women choose.
However you can't force someone to fall in love with you, which I'm sure you're well aware of . Best of luck hun, there's nothing like a military man!