i just feel so ugly and pointless so, strikes I cry about it all night long and sometimes I can not think about it, I'm 21 and I'm not fat or anything but I wouldn't say I'm gorgeous and i know for a fact nobody would take a second look at me without having a lot of make up on and spent hours on my hair and make up :( everywhere I look like on the streets or on Instagram or looking at famous actresses I wish I could just look like or be one of them, my main insecurity is probably my smile, I wish I had a big smile like marylin Monroe had but my smile is very small and I always get told I look very young because I have a small face :/ i also feel ugly because I can't find a boyfriend or anyone to care about me, I was deeply in love with my ex and he left me a year ago and I just think ill never be good enough for anyone now :(
Most Helpful Guy
Hey, looks aren't everything. I knew a girl once who wasn't a 'stunner' but because she was confident, funny and had just an awesome personality she was one of the most attractive girls I've ever known. That's true, I'm not just saying that.
Don't let that Facebook and instragram bullshit fool you. The girls who constantly post pictures of themselves with questions like 'boys, how do I look?' Get on my bloody nerves. They're insecure and behind closed doors many of them have pretty screwed up minds. I don't find those girls attractive at all.
Instead of worrying about how you look, tryyourbest to concentrate on becoming more positive, get some new hobbies, try to enjoy life and laugh a bit more. That's what's attractive in a girl, looks are worth nothing if there's an ugly person underneath.
Hope that helps.
Chin up girl.0
Most Helpful Girl
You need to start accepting yourself before someone else will accept you, I used to be on that boat hated everything about myself even my chest lol but only because I was bullied because of it. Never got asked out and I couldn't stand it, it was driving me nuts then finally I asked a male friend of mine why no guys asked me out and he said "Because you always look at your feet and when you talk it's like you're whispering and you hunch your shoulders so they know you don't have much self esteem, work on yourself right now get better and love yourself or if you attract someone it'll either be a guy who wants to always take care of you or a guy who will abuse you so fix yourself. So that's what I've been doing every morning I wake up after I take a shower I check myself out in the mirror compliment my body and flirt with myself ( i know that sounds weird but it works) ex. (Nice, you're looking hot this fine morning) it's very embarassing but no one else is in the bathroom to judge me and my weirdness. Talk to yourself compliment yourself hit on yourself and lastly fall in love with yourself you can't expect love from someone else when you can't even love you.1