I am 17 years old and have been currently looking for a girlfriend the problem is the girls are not interested in me. I have met 10 girls in the past year and each one has not even wanted to go on a date with me. I have been nice, have flirted, and gave them plenty of space. 100% of the time I would not hear back from them if I did not text them first. I am not sure what I am doing wrong I eat healthy, exercise daily, play plenty of sports, am on the honor roll, have plenty of guy friends, try new things (ex:just started snowboarding) and even modeled for a couple of photo shoot about a year ago.
An example of a girl ditching me happened a few nights ago. I met this girl at a party and she was nice and very sweet. The whole night we had conversations but I gave her plenty of space meaning she came up to me first. After a couple of hours of talking and flirting things were going very well. Anyway a drunk guy came up to her and started to hug her and I could tell she was a bit uncomfortable. I left without her number because the guy was being belligerent so the next day I Facebook messaged her but my friend told me the drunk guy she met at the party asked her out on a date and she went the next night with him. I do not drink and a drunk guy got the girl while I was sober. I am not even sure if that makes any sense. But that is what happens I text girls and they always have excuses to why they can't go on a simple date with me. They always say that I am "too nice" is that even possible? I have even tried to tone down how nice I am yet nothing has happened. So girls I am asking you what attracts you to a guy because apparently I have hit some rough spots in the dating game?
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Man, I had a similar situation, I'm actually kind of still working on it. Basically, too nice means you're letting girls walk all over you, giving them exactly what they want. You have to think more of what you want, and be more assertive. Confidence is key, and you have to be more of a man. I'm like you, I don't drink, I eat right, play sports, good marks. Simply put, be more selfish- and also, look for girls more similar to you. You don't drink and you get good marks, so go for girls like that, not the others. And I know, hot, smart, non-drinkers are very hard to find. Ugh...2