I'm a overweight 20 year old young women. I have bad problems with my self image about how I look and my weight. I've had two babies already and it was left me feeling like I don't have a good looking body anymore. My breasts look saggy and droopy and so does my stomach. I have a little double skin I don't like. I don't mind the stretch marks. I would like to call them "souvenirs of motherhood". I don't like the way my teeth look. I find them crooked and I do have a overbite. I have a flat *** thanks to my native generics. My hair is curly, but frizzy and dry from dying it since I was 12 years old. And with things all together combined as well. It affects my relationship with my fiance as well. I don't feel like I'm sexy enough for him. My question is what are some things I can start doing to help myself feel beautiful and accept myself for the way I look. I'm tired of struggling with almost with it on daily bases. I just want to feel beautiful on the outside.
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I'm gonna just speak from a man's point of view and please do not be offended in anyway by the way I word things. I have only the greatest intentions. For one looking at your photo I do not in anyway at all see where you have anything at all wrong with you. I think our society has way to often drilled into peoples heads that they have to be this thin body type. I for one and many of my guy friends agree with me in that a woman that has curves and fills out is so much more better looking that someone to thin. Now my personal thought; I have always always thought that a woman's body like you describe is amazing. There is something very special and attractive about a womans body after she's become a mother. I've been with several women that have given birth and know exactly what you're talking about when you say things like, saggy breasts and stomach. These discriptions are often if not always taken as a negative by the women that have them. They are not negative. Please know this. I like the "souvenirs of motherhood" that's more of a better way for me to describe how myself and many men like me find ladies such as yourself. I think you are extremely attractive and without a doubt know that you have a beautiful body. If your boyfriend tells you that you are sexy and beautiful and perfect then you have to listen. He's being honest with you. There are many of us guys that will always perfer a woman like you hands down. You are the kind that many of us search for and not the skinny or thin type women that have no curves or thickness. You have it...be proud and smile...good luck and tell you're boyfriend that I'm jealous ;) take care.9