Let's face it, girls are far more finicky about a guy's looks. If a guy isn't an 8/10 or up, he better have 1)money 2)good personality 3)Lots of attractive women hanging out around him.
Otherwise forget it, a decent girl will not even look at you...
What is flippin wrong with you females? Or is it just an American thing?
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I think you're generalizing a little too much- women are a pretty diverse group.
I personally don't really care how much money you make as long as you can pay your bills and are responsible with what money you have because I'm able to support myself. I'm not looking for a guy to support me- and I never expect a guy to pay for me, if he offers I'll let him sometimes, but not always and I like to treat a guy I'm dating sometimes too. There are lots of girls who want a guy with money, but just as many of us who couldn't care less. I think it's a misperception guys have that's all too common- they think all women want money when it's just not the case.
Now, I'm not going to say I don't want a good personality because obviously I do, that's probably the most important thing. But it's a pretty broad term and what some girls like others won't, so chances are unless you're a complete jerk you'll be able to find a girl who thinks your personality is great.
And as for attractive girls hanging out around a guy- to me that's not really attractive because it says player or party boy not ready to settle into a relationship right now. I think that goes for a lot of "decent" girls looking for a relationship, perhaps not ones looking for a one-night-stand but that's a different story. Plus, I don't want a guy with an entourage- I'll never get to know him or get his full attention while he's holding court with ten other women. There's nothing wrong with those kinds of guys, but if I see them, they have to work twice as hard to convince me they're sincere as the ones who are just chilling with their buddies watching the game or playing pool.
That's me anyway, and it describes a lot of other girls I know. Maybe try going for a different type of girl?2