What is your idea of the perfect girl..
personality wise and looks
(but be realistic on the looks please) =))
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Gotta have a fit body. I mean I'd assume that she'd be curvy and have a good stomach and hips and butt, but it's more that she has to be into fitness and that she shows it. I'm in the gym 5 days a week making sure I'm in good shape. I'm not really hugely muscular but I'm very lean, 6'1" and 165 lbs with very little body fat. I like the way I look and I work hard for it, I eat right, cook for myself, and stay away from soda and alcohol and smoke. I think that if my girl didn't value her health as much as I value my own, we'd hit some hiccups. It's hard to live two different lifestyles. And I can compromise on the specifics, like maybe she drinks or wakes up later / earlier than I do and skips breakfast or whatever, but I can't compromise on the values. So since I look after myself, I assume that she'll look after herself and be beautiful. :)
She can't take stuff personally. I am an extremely competitive and driven guy, not just in the world of sports, but in a lot of creative ways relating to my life. When my mom had to stop cooking because she got a full time job, I set out to become the best cook I could be. When my friend told me not to take macroeconomics if it isn't required because it kills most people's GPA, I signed up for it because I wanted to prove I could pass it. If there's a way to improve myself, I jump on the chance to try it and that requires that I take absolutely no criticism personally, or else I could pass up advice that could make a difference. I'd like my girl to be as driven and competitive as I am at whatever she does. Really, this may sound like a lot but it's just about being emotionally mature. Most people who take stuff well are very emotionally mature and composed and I think that's something that really lends a hand in communicating in a relationship.
She's gotta have a strong style! She can dress however she wants to, gothic, nerdy, theater, cheerleader, designer labels, whatever. And she can like whatever music or movies she wants to. I've been a DJ for the past 5 years so I'm big into music and movies. I'd expect someone to be able to intelligently explain the choices that they make and be sure of themselves. I don't want to be with any girl, I want to be with someone special who thinks for themselves. Someone with good style is normally proud of the way they look and think and who they are and I want to be with someone who sees themselves the way I do.
Really it's not about she's gotta meet this or that, but I do require a person who carries themselves like I carry myself and has compatible values. Just kind of a cheesy answer once you boil it all down, but it's the truth... what can I say.0