I've never dated before, and granted while it's because I've only ever been rejected, I've still never had a girlfriend so I don't know where this comes from since I don't have the experience.
Friends have told me you shouldn't get tied down to just one girl, but why? If I'm going out with someone I like, I would hope it lasts as long as possible and it leads to marriage. Of course if it doesn't work out for one reason or another then that's what it is, but why would I aim to not make it last? I don't get it. I personally want the first girl I get into a serious relationship with to be with me forever
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Because they've had the girl that broke there heart and got really serious. It'll all make sense after your first girlfriend. Cause the first girl you go out with your an idiot about. You're going to spend way to much money on her and ditch your friends and do everything you possibly can to make her happy, you're going to get to attached fall in love want to be with her forever and then she's going to take your heart and smash it into little tiny pieces. I know it sounds horrible and you'll say to yourself I won't make those mistakes but will all have or will it's how you learn. & after that you don't want to get attached you want to go out and have fun, not have those feelings that hurt you so much. So you'll probably go and sleep with randoms or something like that plus when your 18-21 your still trying to find yourself you have gone through college, met new people started your career become who you're going to be for the rest of your life. People change and you have to find out who you are and she has to find out who she is so people do sometimes need to play the field find someone that'll match with yourself.
Don't worry about what your friends say, just do what your "heart" tell you. I know it's corny but you gota do what you feel or your going to end up with a lot of what ifs and regrets. Just be careful it's a really tough world and you will get hurt more than once and it'll be the worst thing you've ever felt but it'll all be worth it2