I notice that whenever I see a pretty female, I am always comparing myself to her. I feel intimidated whenever I see someone that looks good. Does anyone have any tips to stop feeling like this?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, and Ill explain why and how. I grew up with an older brother who was a huge womanizer so growing up I believed that it was very important to be attractive and to be the most attractive. so what ends up happening is you end up having confidence issues. as I got older and became more of a philosopher and separated myself from the way my brother Made Alive appear to be I developed two things number 1 you have to find a uniqueness about yourself. you need to develop something no one can take away from you so that you are never creating a superficial comparison of yourself to others. what we are really doing when we compare somebody's physical Beauty 2 hours so we're also creating inside our head the personality of that person to match the physical perspective. if you can imagine so I'm being pretty or handsome yet having a horrible attitude and their life is incomplete. I had a relationship which was just amazing she taught me how to consistently boost the confidence of your significant other and mainly that was creating a Unity which was sexual and personal. sew a lot of life will have to do with somebody helping you to establish how unique you are as you can tell yourself that I am the most unique person I know or there something special about me know when someone else it becomes known it becomes a fact so I would not settle for someone who can not help you strengthen your confidence while you and strengthen theirs. I believe I said enough but I'm willing to expand and elaborate on any point1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you just gotta think of it like you're just appreciating her beauty and then work on learning to appreciate your own as well.2