Why is everything pertaining to guys AND girls so complicated? Why are flirting, dating then relationships so complicated? And just love in general?!
Feeling very frustrated and lonely these days. Looking for some enlightenment.
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Ah my lovely young lady, the big why that so plagues us all. I fear the greatest irony of all is that the answer to why things are so complicated is a simple one. It is because we are complicated as a species. The complexity is because we make things complicated intentionally and there are many who lack the courage to be honest not only with others, but most importantly with themselves, so these people lie and scheme and confuse because the truth is more than can be borne by them. I can assure you it would be the desire of many, that such things were simpler, it would be this very desire that we have philosophers, poets, artists and bards. Take courage in knowing you are not alone in your quest for clarity in a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. Remain true to yourself any your efforts will not go unanswered as you will find one who is worthy of your love and loyalty. Take heart you will not roam this earth alone.1